My story started with the lessons I had to live.

Every person I dated taught me something about myself.

When I got divorced, I had never really dated before. I was completely green. And let me tell you… I learned a lot of lessons the hard way.

But one thing I did differently changed everything.

Instead of only asking, “What was wrong with him?” I began asking, “What is this experience revealing about me?”

That question became the beginning of my own integration.

I started seeing how perfectionism, fear of rejection, emotional unavailability, self-acceptance, and overfunctioning were not just relationship issues. They were invitations to shed light on the places within me that needed healing.

Why I created The BECOME Integration Model™

I know how painful it is to spend years learning every lesson the hard way. So I created a path to help women break unhealthy patterns, live authentically, and cultivate aligned relationships — with guidance, support, and far less pain than I experienced.

This work is not about becoming someone new. It is about embracing yourself fully, returning to self-honor, and learning to move through life from authenticity, clarity, and emotional freedom.